heaven and hell at once

This is somewhat off my intended topic but it’s rather important for me to get this out there.

You ever hear that saying, “The only people you need in your life is the people that need you in their’s”?  Well, if you haven’t previously….now you have!  And let me expound upon it………Don’t bust your butt for a friendship or a relationship or anything else for that matter with a person that doesn’t appreciate you or reciprocate your attention to the friendship and/or relationship.  If at sometime during your friendship/relationship it becomes evident that you are an ‘option’ to the other party then WITHDRAW your attention, adoration and friendship and/or love.  Do NOT waste another minute thinking that with just a little more TLC the other person will come around.  Forgive me for being blunt but if they are an A%@*Hole now, they always will be!!!  Save your energies and attention for the multitudes that are out there that will appreciate you and reciprocate your actions of appreciation.  Trust me, someone will value YOU just the way YOU are more than you have ever been valued before.  So find those relationships/friendships and bask in them.  The quicker you move on the better for you and all those who truly will love and appreciate you!

Wise wisdom gathered from fourty years of faltering  

p.s. promise to get back to my intended journalling of my son’s brave journey and mine and his feelings along the way next post….deviated long enough

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